Why Others People Don't Love me, I am Right, Why Others People Don't Give me Love, 2020

Why Others People Don't Love me, I am Right, Why Others People Don't Give me Love, 2020

Why Others People Don't Love me, I am Right, Why Others People Don't Give me Love, 2020


Why Others People Don't Love me, I am Right, Why Others People Don't Give me Love, 2020

Today I'm going to talk about a beautiful topic "why others don't love me now" this is one question so many of people have asked me and recently one of my friend yesterday called me and told that she is doing everything in the best way whatever she can  but everyone is avoiding her. she feels very lonely. so why people are not loving you, people are not understanding you, why people are ignoring you. have you just thought about it. at least you know some point in our life, each one of us Buddha felt that I remember in my childhood days or in my teenage. I used to feel like I'm good for nothing, no one loves me, my parents don't feel good about you know all the feelings. I had. but when I realized about what is the thought processes and how the thought process influencing the realities, that is happening around us. it's not that my family didn't love me, but it was like I was not able to realize their love. because I didn't have love for myself. so what's important is do you really love and accept yourself. see you most of the time, what happens is you are not comfortable with yourself. you don't really like yourself. but you are expecting others love you, why should people love you for the love that you are not giving to others.

 so I was asking my friend see, do you give back the love that you want to them back. she was like yeah I'm perfect, I'm doing everything right. but do you give the compassion or love that you are seeking from others and she was actually silent. she was actually thinking. so when you are expecting something from others give that more and more to others and don't keep asking. because when you radiate the love from within you to others. it will reflect you back, see your life is a mirror, what you give come backs to you. so if you are angry. if you are, you know a stressed person that's what coming back you. so if you want to be loved, give love, give what they need, you know understand them from their perspective. sometimes you know when people are stressed or when people are in difficulty. they may avoid you, didn't maybe mean to hurt you, but you know they are, their family, they are your family members or your close friends and they express their emotions to you. don't take it personal, like I had heard a beautiful sentence in the movie Beauty and the Beast like, you know when someone is angry this says, so many things, but you don't have to believe everything that they say. you can ignore, what people say in anger. it's not all that what they mean, they are saying it out of anger, don't take it personal. they are just expressing their anger. 

so whatever happens in your life. you radiate love and that's going to make you happy. so if you want to see the world around you to change the world. around you to behave or you know be good to you, be good to them, be the change you want to see the world around you. you have to start from within.

let me just tell you I am so lucky to have so much blood, people around me they may not be my relatives, they may not be my best friends or school friends or anything. but they came from somewhere in my life and they are part of my life. of course, I have wonderful family, I have everything wonderful in my life. because I accept them as them, I don't try to change them. so don't try to change the people around you, just accept them. the way they are and help them to evolve as a better person. don't just keep seeking people, do people love me, do people don't focus on you. when you focus on you, you won't be happy. focus on others, focus on giving, focus on you're giving them more. so whatever you're seeking in your life, give that more to the world. maybe you may not get back from that person. where you are giving. but Universal God will bless you from somewhere else, beautiful love that you are seeking for like the love within you. be pure, be unconditional love radiates the love within, you have self-love, you know respect yourself, know you are worth, see now most of the time like my friend was the other way, other day, she was saying like everyone of finding my fault. 


let them say whatever they feel, that's what they saw in you. but what you believed in you, is right someone's opinion about you does not have to become your reality. if you are true, if you are right, trust your yourself. God is with you, then everything around you is going to be become so may the world love you and reflect the love within you to the world around you. love you so much.


Thank You Thank You Thank You ❤️❤️.

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