Heal Your Problem, How to Heal Your Pain, How to Heal Your Problem, Top Best Tips 2020.

Heal Your Problem, How to Heal Your Pain, How to Heal Your Problem, Top Best Tips 2020.

Heal Your Problem, How to Heal Your Pain, How to Heal Your Problem, Top Best Tips 2020.

Heal Your Problem, How to Heal Your Pain, How to Heal Your Problem, Top Best Tips 2020.

i am going to speak about "How to heal your pain now" this is one topic requested by many people. we all go through some or the other pain in our life. it can be mostly emotional. it can be physical anything now. emotional pain actually what we do is we try to hide it. we try not to share it with anyone and somewhere. it actually hurts a lot now. there are a lot of people who speaks about their pain that has happened maybe you know emotional pain that has happened five years back ten years back the whole life. they are holding that pain now how to heal that pain and go forward. that is what we are going to acknowledge today now see let me just give you an example, if you have a cut in your hand the first thing what we have to do is. we need to you know actually acknowledge that i have got a cut on my hand. the blood is coming what we have to do we have to wipe the blood clean and put something. you know that can heal and let it heal by itself right. we need to acknowledge it. we need to do something to take care of that heal and just leave it like that right every time.

if you just go and you know touch the wound and you know if you try if it is healed. what happens the wound will not get healed it again and again and that that pain will remain. because if it is not healed, you are touching there again and again. it is not healing and the pain is still there now. if that cut is totally healed maybe after two weeks three weeks or one month, two months. if that wound is healed and after that if you touch there. you will not feel the pain you can just see a scar all right now. after many many many days or many  after one year or something if you just look at there. you will not even see the scar and it is perfectly normal now. this is the same way you have to deal with your emotional pain too. you know when you know you have a pain or you are hurt don't just avoid it. don't try to avoid it. because that will stay inside your heart and keep on increasing. the wood like if you don't acknowledge the wood when it happens. there is a chance that it can get even severe. but just understand what happened to you just that it you. you have a pain and acknowledge it and understand it and and talk to yourself. you know your heart is like a little child. always need love and care. so tell it's okay and this wound is going to make us stronger and better talk to yourself and acknowledge it and give it time to heal.

it will heal by itself and after few days of letting it. you know be there and if it is not healed what will we do with the same wound now. if it is not healed by whatever strategies you did. we go to the doctor all right same way when you have a pain, emotional pain that you are not able to handle by yourself. talk to someone who understands. you talk to someone who you know you just want to share that feeling you feel much better. just share with someone who actually you know acknowledges you, understand you, who have compassion towards you. do not share your problem to someone who judges you or who finds your fault. because already we are hurt and we know, we have done some mistake or we feel bad about ourselves or something happened to us. so do not go to someone who actually hurt you more, saying that i told you right. you should not do that go to someone who just tells you. i understand you. you know who actually understands you very well right. so always make sure you go to the right person or to a counselor or to someone who actually have a compassion towards you. who really wishes you to be healed or to someone who actually does not care what happens to you. because when we talk to a stranger we feel much free because that person does not judge you. judging is something that we feel more and more hurt. so this is for me when i have a pain what i do is i acknowledge it. i try to understand why this happened and i try to learn something beautiful that i have. i have to take forward in my life because you know once if you get a cut with a knife in your hand. you don't go and put your knife and again get the same cut right. so the learning chapter is what you know you got a hurt because you did something like this and do not repeat the same thing or do not you know repeat the same things with the same person and uh in relationships when you hurt please understand that certain hurt and certain pain is needed us. needed for us to grow and evolve there is nothing bad in you know getting hurt and learning from it and growing.


so there are you know some relationships which comes to our life and we may feel so beautiful so wonderful. but after some time the relationship may get toxic and the moment you realize that relationship is getting toxic and you cannot go forward do not keep blaming each other and hurt each other, disassociate from each other for the goodness of both of you. because everyone are not meant to be in our life for you know the life long. so some people come to our life. teaches us something really beautiful and they may go let them go. let them be happy the way they are. because that will make you also stronger and happier in life. do not hold on the relationships, that actually you know puts you down or makes you feel bad about yourself or do not keep hurting someone else asking them to stay. because of your fear to get hurt. because you become strong by yourself by trusting god because i always believe my best friend is god and he is always there with me and he gives the right people into my life and i have wonderful people in my life. trust me you won't believe how beautiful your life.

when you have a beautiful relationship with almighty. your life is going to get just amazing. so leave the wounds to get healed and you will have a beautiful life ahead. thank you so much and love you all. 

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